Last year, I spent most of my – precious little – reflection time working on a Sanity Manifesto to identify key aspects of my life that need attention and focus. (I recently used Wordle.net to create a lovely visual collage of it. Incidently, if anyone knows how to get a downloadable digital copy of these lovely word clouds, please share your wisdom in the comments below. Suggestions for other fun apps or websites that will create such things are also most welcome.)
As part of my #40×40 project, I’m adding 10 more statements of intention to the 30 I previously crafted to create my #40×40 Manifesto. Here are the next 9 to bring me to a grand total of 39.
I’m saving #40 to see how the Spirit moves in the next year.
1. No guilt in life no fear in death. The truth is, I live under the weight of false guilt and irrational fear far too much of the time. I’m learning that God has a different plan for how I ought to live as His beloved child: forgiven and free of fear. This is the power of Christ in me.
2. For such a time as this. This is Queen Esther’s version of “bloom where you are planted”. Sometimes I forget that the positions and roles I have are at the centre of divinely ordained spheres of influence. Sometimes – though God doesn’t need me to accomplish His purposes – He gives me the privilege of bringing His voice into the conversation and the opportunity to be a part of his Divine Conspiracy.
3. Take it off the table. I have been exploring the importance of abstinence disciplines (fasting, solitude, silence, simplicity, frugality) as they are often neglected in the Christian life. For the sake of growth and margin, I am learning that it is liberating to take things off the table, to abstain from certain things – even if it is just for a time – to jolt me from my complacency. For example, for Lent this year, I am fasting from bread and wine and, recently, I have been contemplating what I can do – or NOT do – to break the hold that consumerism has on me. More on that in subsequent posts, I suspect.
4. Opt out to buy in. I’m learning that releasing some things I am holding onto too tightly will allow me to open my arms again to embrace the things that really matter. Instead of being worried about missing out, I’m opting out of lesser things to buy into joy. #jomo
5. There are no perfect decisions. Lisa Terkeurst’s, The Best Yes, has offered some timely wisdom in my life of analysis paralysis and people-pleasing. I am learning to make “wise decisions in the midst of endless demands”, as her subtitle encourages. I’m learning that sometimes I just need to choose and not be worried about it being the perfect choice because “not making a decision is actually a decision. It is the decision to stay the same.”
6. Live like an overcomer. I often live defeated, as if I have no choice about my behaviour. I don’t feel much like a new creation. However, when I succumb to this temptation, I am believing a lie. We have been promised that old things have passed away and that the power of the Holy Spirit is within us to give us hope. So I do NOT need to live as a slave to my weaknesses, I’m more than a conqueror. Lord, give me strength to live the overcomer life.
7. Work the slight edge. I believe I have dangerously underestimated the impact of small steps in the wrong direction. Though it may seem like those little choices don’t add up in the short-term, in the long-term small increments add up to large outcomes in the direction of your choices. As my friend Bob Wiley would say, “if you’re baby-stepping, you’re doing the work!” The slight edge offers encouragement to those of us who might be afraid we are incapable of making big changes because the big decisions seem overwhelming.
8. Be thrifty. There are many good reasons to shop at second-hand or consignment stores, not the least of which involve the stewardship of environmental and financial resources and the lessening of one’s slavery footprint. (I am saddened by the estimate of how many slaves work to support my lifestyle and I want this to change. Determine your own footprint by answering the survey here.) Most of my house is furnished and decorated with free or thrifted hand-me-downs (or salvaged items on their way to the dump). With very few exceptions, my living room is decorated with someone else’s cast off items and I find it quite warm and inviting, don’t you? The truth is, I don’t have to spend what I often think I have to spend and I want to remember that new is overrated.
9. 65, stay alive. At Queen’s, we had this slogan to remind us to keep our priorities in check and not let school work steal our lives away; as long as we maintained a 65% average, we could stay in our programs and on track, academically. Giving 110% is basic over-spending in the energy department and it is not a sustainable plan if I want my relationships to have priority. Andy Stanley’s small but mighty book, Choosing to Cheat: Who Wins When Family and Work Collide?, offers important wisdom to those of us who need to learn to cheat properly. Work is not the place to spend myself. 65% is reasonable. 65% is good. 65% is enough.
So, those are the updates as I head into my 40th year.
Can you relate? Any suggestions for my 40th intention? What are some of the statements that you would include on your manifesto?